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EXPERIENCE…

Stories untold…The journeys we took…The Experiences we hoard… Have you noticed?Our experiences whether good/bad serve as good reference point for advice, guidance and counselling… People going through ordeals open up more and relate better when they understand you’ve been in similar situations.They’ll gladly listen to if/how you remedied the situation. But, we are so busy […]

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FAMILY.

You have three families… 1) The one you were born into.2) The one you create. (Network) 3) The one you build (By marriage) For the purpose of this piece, I’ll focus on the first and second types. The family you are born into, you are connected to via blood whether nuclear or extended. The family […]

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GIFTS AND FRUITS.

“FRUITS are the manifestations of GIFTS” Humans naturally, have gifts innate in them, which is usually referred to as talent which can be harnessed. These gifts are peculiar to each human, so peculiar that even twins/triplets possess and exhibit varied gifts/talents. And so one can see that while a twin has a flair for technology, […]

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GLITZ AND GLAMOUR.

Me: Where do you see yourself in the nearest future?She: Married with kids and working.Me: Wow! Nice… Me: What are you plans for life?He: I don’t know.Me: Really?He: Yes. I have my job, I will keep getting better and meeting targets. I do not have it all figured out.Me: Wow! Wow!He: Yes. Sometimes we forget […]

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IDENTITY…

Someone once told me, “I cannot date anyone who is not clear about their goals and aspirations. I have refused to date some persons because they are not career and impact-oriented as myself. I do not have the time to groom someone who doesn’t know what they want, I’d rather go with someone who is […]

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Empathy

Sympathy is great. A feeling of pity or sorrow over the plight of people. “Heiya, sorry dear, get well soon.” “You lost your mom? Wow! So sorry about that.” But you see, empathy is greater. It enables you to identify with the emotions, feelings and thoughts of others. You are able to put yourself in […]

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FLUCTUATING

Consistency… This is one attribute I really love, about myself (yes) and people who eventually become my friend. That they can consistenly be themselves no matter how weird. Don’t get it twisted, I appreciate change, making adjustments, innovations. But you See, these terms are oftentimes mistaken for fluctuation. Yes! And so trying to account for […]

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Ask Me Anything.

I was bored and wanted my network to engage me through their questions. I wanted to have thought-provoking discussions so I put up on my status, ‘Ask Me Anything’ Well, what I got was a shocker. “8 of 10 questions I got were centered on my love/sex life.“ I did get few questions on personal […]

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Let The Games Begin! ⚽🎉

GOOAAALLLL!!!!!!!!! Me: …carries up the plastic chair I was seated on and runs round the bar/viewing centre… Another viewer carries me head high and before you know it, there were throwing me around, LOL. I AM A FOOTBALL FAN. A crazy football fan.An unapologetic football fan. Growing up, in lieu of the NTA news parents […]

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RELATIONSHIPS (Communication)

My boyfriend thinks I’m too serious! 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 There. I know, I got your attention, and now that I have it, let me start all over. 😉 My network on social media thinks I am too serious. You know, the type of person who almost never have fun, who is always on […]