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EXPERIENCE…
Stories untoldā¦The journeys we tookā¦The Experiences we hoardā¦ Have you noticed?Our experiences whether good/bad serve as good reference point for advice, guidance and counsellingā¦ People going through ordeals open up more and relate better when they understand you’ve been in similar situations.They’ll gladly listen to if/how you remedied the situation. But, we are so busy…
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FAMILY.
You have three familiesā¦ 1) The one you were born into.2) The one you create. (Network) 3) The one you build (By marriage) For the purpose of this piece, I’ll focus on the first and second types. The family you are born into, you are connected to via blood whether nuclear or extended. The family…
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GIFTS AND FRUITS.
“FRUITS are the manifestations of GIFTS” Humans naturally, have gifts innate in them, which is usually referred to as talent which can be harnessed. These gifts are peculiar to each human, so peculiar that even twins/triplets possess and exhibit varied gifts/talents. And so one can see that while a twin has a flair for technology,…
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GLITZ AND GLAMOUR.
Me: Where do you see yourself in the nearest future?She: Married with kids and working.Me: Wow! Niceā¦ Me: What are you plans for life?He: I don’t know.Me: Really?He: Yes. I have my job, I will keep getting better and meeting targets. I do not have it all figured out.Me: Wow! Wow!He: Yes. Sometimes we forget…
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IDENTITY…
Someone once told me, “I cannot date anyone who is not clear about their goals and aspirations. I have refused to date some persons because they are not career and impact-oriented as myself. I do not have the time to groom someone who doesn’t know what they want, I’d rather go with someone who is…
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Empathy
Sympathy is great. A feeling of pity or sorrow over the plight of people. “Heiya, sorry dear, get well soon.” “You lost your mom? Wow! So sorry about that.” But you see, empathy is greater. It enables you to identify with the emotions, feelings and thoughts of others. You are able to put yourself in…
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FLUCTUATING
Consistency… This is one attribute I really love, about myself (yes) and people who eventually become my friend. That they can consistenly be themselves no matter how weird. Don’t get it twisted, I appreciate change, making adjustments, innovations. But you See, these terms are oftentimes mistaken for fluctuation. Yes! And so trying to account for…
Jessica Uche 